So I am a growing trend to society. My status "28/SWF/Canada" searching for a friend/date/mate in a busy world as a single mother,working full time. I turn to POF also known as..Plenty of fish.com.

This is a place I feel confused about since it's a bit like advertising yourself in ways a person wouldn't normally. Post a picture,state your requirments,tell your status,exploit your expectations and set your standards. However convienient that can be, it does take the charm out of discovering a persons "talents".

I am finding myself unable to remember all the details of the many people I have been chatting with,but to my relief I can always refer back to the profile list. But does that means I'm not truly interested? how can I tell?

Tomorrow I have an interview/date where I will be judged and compared to my own profile on whether or not I resemble my picture. I wasn't sure what the estimated time to get to know a person before actually meeting them would be until it occured to me that most people I meet face to face, I don't get the chance to talk to them first,so why not meet?

Even though I have these feelings I tend to get excited when I check my emails for new messages and comments.I feel proud and attractive,as if these men know me personally when they compliment me. I know POF offers a list of things to say when emailing, but I'm still flattered. It should be mentioned that I did find this particular site while sifting through the many profiles on POF.

With this said,after work I anxiously rush through the crowds of people. Keep to myself, not allow anyone to interupt my flow just so I can get home quickly to invest hours, alone, on my computer, hopeing to connect to someone.