There is a point in a girls life where we need to sit down, think about what we want in life and go after it. Especially in our 20 or so years, its the transitioning point of where we turn from girls to women. This is the delicate time where we can be anyone, with anybody, at any given time. The power that we have is insane. What we end up doing right now, at this given day, at this exact moment, can change our entire lives forever. "Dont sweat the small stuff," is the saying that is most commonly used. On the other hand, the small stuff is our soft spot. What was so small, suddenly becomes such a huge ordeal, and ultimately in the end, puts us in the mess that we become. If we hadnt had our hearts bruised a little from all those guys we wouldnt have learned that the right one is out there. Waiting, wishing, welcoming us into HIS heart. If at some point we didnt get treated like shit, and taken for granted, we wouldnt have learned that we DESERVE better, far much better. Its all about a learning process and a round of elimination. At the time we should in our right minds be mad at the men who treat us like shit, take us for granted, ignore us, or dont give us the time of day, but ironically we should thank them. Thank them for showing us that we DONT WANT scum in our lives, we are too fabolous women to be seen with THAT. Thank them for allowing us to have GOALS, ambitions AND STANDARDS, of finding THAT man who is WILLING to give us the time of day and TREAT us like the gorgeous women we are. The men who THOUGHT that we werent worthy of their time, or that they could USE us for their pleasure, well hear this, we ARE worthy of your time and it WASNT that GREAT anyways. Thats probably the lowest of lows we will end up going, calling you down, for the simple fact, we are classy, independent, strong, diginified women. No matter how many times we get kicked down, we are going to get right back up. No matter how many tears we cry, we will wipe them away and replace it with a smile. No matter how many times we hear the words.." I just dont want you", YOUR going to end up saying.." Im gunna regret this later on." No matter how many times you lie to us, we will put our "honesty is the best policy" forward. No matter how many times we get rejection upon rejection, we learn from our MISTAKES, which is YOU, and we will come out on top.Becoming a better woman emotionally, mentally and spiritually.

So many changes, yet becoming the women of our future.

Nothings holding us back, ever again