Men of our past were amazing...the future?
There will be many men that come into our lives. Some of which who have already been here and gone on. The numbers are high but there are a few who have actually made an impact on you. Theres always going to be that man who made you feel like he was the luckiest man in the world. Theres always going to be that man who was forgotten but sometimes creeps into your mind and thats all you can think of. Theres always going to be that man who makes you smile at the thought of him. Theres always going to be that man who was your first love, and you will never forget what you had. Theres always that man who respected you for who you were, not what you werent. Theres always that man who will be the sexiest man in your mind, even if he wasnt model material. Theres always going to be that man who treats you so amazing yet you cant find the words or actions to make it all perfect. You wish and hope soo much that you could freeze time, and all the men that left such a strong feeling in your heart could still be here.No matter the trials and turbalations of whatever comes our way,theres always going to be a man. The men in our past were amazing and we can only wish the men of our future can step up to the plate and make an impact on us.
Todays man should realize that first and fore most you are an independent, strong, intelligent woman. He shouldnt knock you down when your falling already. This man should be picking you up when your in highest high and lowest low. After a fight, he shouldnt be at your feet and begging for your forgiveness, he should be treating you like the queen you are, all the time.This man should think outside the box and value your opinion. He should have pride in his walk, love in his eyes and a caring heart. When things get rough and arent going his way, he should be a man and do whats best, not act like a little boy. This man should know that there were many men before him and you cant but help compare him to others. You want a man who treated you the same when you guys first went out. The flowers, the smiles, the surprises, the dinners,the dates; anything he could come up with to win you over. Thats how it should be all the time, not just some of the time. You want a man who really supports you with anything you do, even if he thinks its stupid. A man who takes care of you is golden. He doesnt have to pay for everything but once in awhile, even a strong, independent woman likes to be vunerable. No matter the time, or place, or man, you know what you want and what you deserve.
When you finally found this man, dont let him go. Dont make him a man of your past. Make him a man of your future. Share, love and laugh with him.
With doing this all, just remember one thing...dont forget yourself.















Great post CatherineDee A+ -
Great post CatherineDee A+ - I can definitely relate! Cheers to independent woman who know what they want and don't forget themselves!! :)
Mo knows Ladies
Can't have your cake and eat it to. Wasn't that said by some girl? Anyways my beef comes from the ladies that want to be independent but yet want to by romanced. Seriously how can you be miss independent and yet want people to pull out a chair for you, buy you drinks and open the door?
Its all said in the one
Its all said in the one comment I wrote..."He doesnt have to pay for everything but once in awhile, even a strong, independent woman likes to be vunerable."...Every woman likes for the man to feel like hes important in some way. And known fact, men love to feel like they are needed, in any way possible.
All in all, its about finding a good balance in between, if thats at all possible.
Sorry... I usually skim when
Sorry... I usually skim when I read...